"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Friend's younger sister's friend.

Eiljwa

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I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gustav Yavo

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Umm, well im now dating my best friends sister. Just approach her like any other girl. Ask her for her number, and go out on some dates.
 

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Eiljwa said:
I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
Um...how about talking to her and showing real interest in her next time you see her?
 

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This is what worked for me. My method for this would be, treat her like crap, be extremely ****y to her, this way u get her in a state where u won't be using any words, you'll be fighting with her like play fighting (pillow fighting, stuff like that), this is where u get ur kino in a kind of different way, but she will get comfortable to you quickly this way, then you propose a truce to the fighting and a girl's defenses will crumble, if u did enough kino and built enough interest i had a girl pulling me in to kiss her after i told her i wanted a truce with her. This was on a girl i never even knew before, 1st day me hanging out with my buddy's younger sister and her friend. Not sure what age groups this would work on but she was under 20. that was a fun night =)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First, make sure she is not jail bait. Then, spend more time interacting with her the next time you two meet. Proceed from there.
 
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