"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friend's younger sister's friend.

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I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Umm, well im now dating my best friends sister. Just approach her like any other girl. Ask her for her number, and go out on some dates.
 
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Eiljwa said:
I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
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Um...how about talking to her and showing real interest in her next time you see her?
 
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This is what worked for me. My method for this would be, treat her like crap, be extremely ****y to her, this way u get her in a state where u won't be using any words, you'll be fighting with her like play fighting (pillow fighting, stuff like that), this is where u get ur kino in a kind of different way, but she will get comfortable to you quickly this way, then you propose a truce to the fighting and a girl's defenses will crumble, if u did enough kino and built enough interest i had a girl pulling me in to kiss her after i told her i wanted a truce with her. This was on a girl i never even knew before, 1st day me hanging out with my buddy's younger sister and her friend. Not sure what age groups this would work on but she was under 20. that was a fun night =)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First, make sure she is not jail bait. Then, spend more time interacting with her the next time you two meet. Proceed from there.
 
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