Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Friend's younger sister's friend.

Eiljwa

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I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gustav Yavo

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Umm, well im now dating my best friends sister. Just approach her like any other girl. Ask her for her number, and go out on some dates.
 

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Eiljwa said:
I have a situation that is confusing for me (almost as confusing as that title ^). I've found myself thinking a lot about my friend's younger sister's best friend. I just started college, and she is in highschool. I got to know her a little bit when I was in high school, but I didn't think much about her until she hung out with us for a little while recently. My question is: how would I go about getting her number and getting to know her better when I only see her at my friend's house with his sister?

Yeah weird...and a little hard to understand, but some input would be nice.

Thanks,
Eilwa
Um...how about talking to her and showing real interest in her next time you see her?
 

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This is what worked for me. My method for this would be, treat her like crap, be extremely ****y to her, this way u get her in a state where u won't be using any words, you'll be fighting with her like play fighting (pillow fighting, stuff like that), this is where u get ur kino in a kind of different way, but she will get comfortable to you quickly this way, then you propose a truce to the fighting and a girl's defenses will crumble, if u did enough kino and built enough interest i had a girl pulling me in to kiss her after i told her i wanted a truce with her. This was on a girl i never even knew before, 1st day me hanging out with my buddy's younger sister and her friend. Not sure what age groups this would work on but she was under 20. that was a fun night =)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First, make sure she is not jail bait. Then, spend more time interacting with her the next time you two meet. Proceed from there.
 
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