"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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friends with BENEFITS!!!

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I'm a college student, and I have a girlfriend. The problem is that her parents are overprotective and they dont allow her to stay out past a certain time. In other words she has a curfew. However, I am also talking to another girl. I want to have this girl be my friend with benefits. The thing is I told her about my girlfriend already, so now she is feeling me but she doesn't want to do anything with me bcuz I have a girlfriend. Can anyone tell me how I can make her cool with the fact that I have a girlfriend so we can be friends with benefits?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So pimp its scary

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By not cheating on your girlfriend...

Listen, I'm all cool with dating multiple chicks and all (like I just posted), but the key difference is that I recommend honesty on the subject...

So, either dump your gf, or tell her that you want to date more casually, then you won't have the gf factor holding you back from this fvck buddy you want.
 

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Be honest with your girlfriend or she'll find out and clean the toilet with your toothbrush and suck your best friend's balls.
 

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believe it or not, you will get farther with women by being honest
 
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