"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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friends with BENEFITS!!!

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I'm a college student, and I have a girlfriend. The problem is that her parents are overprotective and they dont allow her to stay out past a certain time. In other words she has a curfew. However, I am also talking to another girl. I want to have this girl be my friend with benefits. The thing is I told her about my girlfriend already, so now she is feeling me but she doesn't want to do anything with me bcuz I have a girlfriend. Can anyone tell me how I can make her cool with the fact that I have a girlfriend so we can be friends with benefits?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By not cheating on your girlfriend...

Listen, I'm all cool with dating multiple chicks and all (like I just posted), but the key difference is that I recommend honesty on the subject...

So, either dump your gf, or tell her that you want to date more casually, then you won't have the gf factor holding you back from this fvck buddy you want.
 
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Be honest with your girlfriend or she'll find out and clean the toilet with your toothbrush and suck your best friend's balls.
 
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believe it or not, you will get farther with women by being honest
 
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