"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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friends with BENEFITS!!!

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I'm a college student, and I have a girlfriend. The problem is that her parents are overprotective and they dont allow her to stay out past a certain time. In other words she has a curfew. However, I am also talking to another girl. I want to have this girl be my friend with benefits. The thing is I told her about my girlfriend already, so now she is feeling me but she doesn't want to do anything with me bcuz I have a girlfriend. Can anyone tell me how I can make her cool with the fact that I have a girlfriend so we can be friends with benefits?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary

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By not cheating on your girlfriend...

Listen, I'm all cool with dating multiple chicks and all (like I just posted), but the key difference is that I recommend honesty on the subject...

So, either dump your gf, or tell her that you want to date more casually, then you won't have the gf factor holding you back from this fvck buddy you want.
 

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Be honest with your girlfriend or she'll find out and clean the toilet with your toothbrush and suck your best friend's balls.
 

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believe it or not, you will get farther with women by being honest
 
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