Maximus002
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Hey guys. I wondered if I need a certain quantity of experience to be successful with friends with benefits. Cause I don't want to be exclusive again
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Friends with benefits (I'm from Germany idk if that is the right description)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BackInTheGame78
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This is the wrong forum for this. Moving to Anything Else forum.
BaronOfHair
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None at all is required. Marriage is little more than friends with benefits that's been recognized by the state, and 17 year olds who've never dated anyone but the person their marrying enter into such contracts all the time
SW15
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I disagree. It takes some skill to maintain a woman's emotions to give her "all the feelz" to keep her attracted. It takes some discipline and knowledge of weight training to build a physique to get her physically attracted enough. If she's physically attracted enough, she'll give a man more leeway on behaviors. This is the whole "women make rules for betas but break rules for alphas thing". Knowledge of sexual techniques that will make it more likely she achieves orgasms will also help with this.
I see your point on this. Many men enter into marriage because they like the way the woman looks and want to keep her having sex with him. They feel like they need to do this because women control the access to sex.
Doctor Europeo
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Escalate, dont give exclusivity, rinse & repeat with another girl
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You have to be extremely immature to believe that.