"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friends Vs Lovers

Is it good to have a hot chick friend?

  • Yes, but it has to be a chick that you never tried anything with

    Votes: 4 40.0%

  • It depends

    Votes: 6 60.0%

  • No, having a chick friend makes you seem like a homo

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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Apprentice DJ

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Is it good to have a hot chick as a friend?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WORKEROUTER

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I've changed my views about this a LITTLE since a thread I posted just recently about the idea of female friends. If you have a gf and aren't looking for another women, then it's good to have a hot female friend.

If not, and you really want to bone her, then don't go into the friend zone. Show her what you REALLY want instead.
 
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Is this one word or two?

Wingwoman...
 
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PRMoon

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My views on having female friends had altered over the years. I'll address this question specifically to keep it breif.

Having a hot chick as a friend can be good thing undercertian conditions. First you have to be absolutely sure not to have jelouse feelings for this person. If that means you've had sex with her or something like that in the past or had a past relationship both agreeing that you're better off as friend or just plain not interested in her whatever she's got to be JUST FRIENDS with you. After that having a single hot fiend can be beneficial. They can go "fishing" for you at bars and clubs. They can con guys into giving you free drinks, get you into vip areas of establishments, it's like having a swiss army knife in the social world. Definately not bad companion in that respect.
 
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