"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Friends Vs Lovers

Is it good to have a hot chick friend?

  • Yes, but it has to be a chick that you never tried anything with

    Votes: 4 40.0%

  • It depends

    Votes: 6 60.0%

  • No, having a chick friend makes you seem like a homo

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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Apprentice DJ

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Is it good to have a hot chick as a friend?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WORKEROUTER

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I've changed my views about this a LITTLE since a thread I posted just recently about the idea of female friends. If you have a gf and aren't looking for another women, then it's good to have a hot female friend.

If not, and you really want to bone her, then don't go into the friend zone. Show her what you REALLY want instead.
 
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Is this one word or two?

Wingwoman...
 
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PRMoon

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My views on having female friends had altered over the years. I'll address this question specifically to keep it breif.

Having a hot chick as a friend can be good thing undercertian conditions. First you have to be absolutely sure not to have jelouse feelings for this person. If that means you've had sex with her or something like that in the past or had a past relationship both agreeing that you're better off as friend or just plain not interested in her whatever she's got to be JUST FRIENDS with you. After that having a single hot fiend can be beneficial. They can go "fishing" for you at bars and clubs. They can con guys into giving you free drinks, get you into vip areas of establishments, it's like having a swiss army knife in the social world. Definately not bad companion in that respect.
 
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