"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friends Vs Lovers

Is it good to have a hot chick friend?

  • Yes, but it has to be a chick that you never tried anything with

    Votes: 4 40.0%
  • It depends

    Votes: 6 60.0%
  • No, having a chick friend makes you seem like a homo

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    10

Apprentice DJ

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Is it good to have a hot chick as a friend?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WORKEROUTER

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I've changed my views about this a LITTLE since a thread I posted just recently about the idea of female friends. If you have a gf and aren't looking for another women, then it's good to have a hot female friend.

If not, and you really want to bone her, then don't go into the friend zone. Show her what you REALLY want instead.
 

flippinfreak

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Is this one word or two?

Wingwoman...
 

PRMoon

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My views on having female friends had altered over the years. I'll address this question specifically to keep it breif.

Having a hot chick as a friend can be good thing undercertian conditions. First you have to be absolutely sure not to have jelouse feelings for this person. If that means you've had sex with her or something like that in the past or had a past relationship both agreeing that you're better off as friend or just plain not interested in her whatever she's got to be JUST FRIENDS with you. After that having a single hot fiend can be beneficial. They can go "fishing" for you at bars and clubs. They can con guys into giving you free drinks, get you into vip areas of establishments, it's like having a swiss army knife in the social world. Definately not bad companion in that respect.
 
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