Friends vs. Girls....if friends are more fun...

[Babnik]

I met a hot girl last week and I never called her because I have been partying and chilling in NYC the entire week. She called me and I never responded and never called her because my ENTIRE time I have been with GREAAAT FRIENDS!

I was never alone (except for a few hours a day)... this made me not think of the girl.... FORGET ABOUT THIS GIRL. This is not the point of the thread!


Thing I noticed is that I only THINK about girls when I am alone! When I am with friends I could care less.

Question - many girls in college go out so freaking much and are always with friends and they pretty much forget about you like I forgot about that girl!

Those girls are rarely alone to THINK about the guy the met! How do you go around that?!

If they are rarely alone, how do you make them prefer YOU over friends?


For ME personally - I can't ever prefer vagina or girl's company over friends! I just can't. Not nearly as fun. I think it same for girls.

Then comes time when I AM alone and I want them girls and its too late...I never called them.

if it works the same way with girls then the thinking is "Why bother going out with him/her if I already have these great friends around me?!??!?!"

Thats how I think...its probably how they think. How to go around that?

 

[Babnik]

bump!

 

[Babnik]

bump

 

[Leporello]

Could be. Sex is great, but it's not the ultimate end-of-the-world thing that it's made out to be. Inevitably, there's some disappointment.

 

[Babnik]

Could be. Sex is great, but it's not the ultimate end-of-the-world thing that it's made out to be. Inevitably, there's some disappointment.

Yeah, but there has to be a way to make them think the other way around...even after the arousal has gone!

 

[Jay Jay]

Well

To answer the question about how to get a girl to choose you over friends...

Give her all the happiness she gets from hanging with friends with the added bonus of getting a great shag as dessert.

JJ

 

[thefonz]

Well unless your friends can give you mind blowing orgasms, if you're into that kind of thing, you should teach yourself to enjoy the company of beautiful women. Maybe it's not so much that you like the company of the friends you have, but more like you don't think you can have any fun with women.

Think about sex, think about grabbing her ass for no reason and just sucking her tits and ****ing like an animal. Sometimes we need to be inspired to get out there with women and if you think about the sexual possiblities that lay in wake for all the work you put into getting chicks, it will be well worth it.

 

[Babnik]

Well unless your friends can give you mind blowing orgasms, if you're into that kind of thing, you should teach yourself to enjoy the company of beautiful women. Maybe it's not so much that you like the company of the friends you have, but more like you don't think you can have any fun with women.

Think about sex, think about grabbing her ass for no reason and just sucking her tits and ****ing like an animal. Sometimes we need to be inspired to get out there with women and if you think about the sexual possiblities that lay in wake for all the work you put into getting chicks, it will be well worth it.

How to get HER to think the same way though?

I am saying that when you are CONSTANTLY with your friends, your mind doesn't go there at ALL. Same with girls. If you are with friends - your mind is not focused on sex.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Man I had fun with my ex. We were like a couple of kids. =P That's pretty rare to find.

 

[Last Man Standing]

The reason not to get married...

gggg

 

[Chemistry]

You should always have a better time with friends...

You've just got to keep good PR with chicks sometimes... keep them only a phone call away from coming over to your place to fvck when you want to fvck

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

Like you, I've got a great group of friends and when I'm with them, I don't think about the guys I might be into.

So if you want a girl to still be thinking of you, I guess you've got to give her something to chew on! I remember one guy told me "tell me something about yourself you haven't told anyone else." For the next six days I was consumed with coming up with something good to respond with. If you really like a girl, give her something to look forward to. Give her the promise of hanging out/going somewhere, and tell her it'll be a surprise. Or leave her a note/voicemail telling her to meet you at ____ and show up hungry.

Regardless, girls will be focused on their friends when hanging out with them, but if you give the girl you're interested in something to look forward to, she'll think about you a lot more.