"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Friends vs. Girls....if friends are more fun...

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I met a hot girl last week and I never called her because I have been partying and chilling in NYC the entire week. She called me and I never responded and never called her because my ENTIRE time I have been with GREAAAT FRIENDS!

I was never alone (except for a few hours a day)... this made me not think of the girl.... FORGET ABOUT THIS GIRL. This is not the point of the thread!


Thing I noticed is that I only THINK about girls when I am alone! When I am with friends I could care less.

Question - many girls in college go out so freaking much and are always with friends and they pretty much forget about you like I forgot about that girl!

Those girls are rarely alone to THINK about the guy the met! How do you go around that?!

If they are rarely alone, how do you make them prefer YOU over friends?


For ME personally - I can't ever prefer vagina or girl's company over friends! I just can't. Not nearly as fun. I think it same for girls.

Then comes time when I AM alone and I want them girls and its too late...I never called them.

if it works the same way with girls then the thinking is "Why bother going out with him/her if I already have these great friends around me?!??!?!"

Thats how I think...its probably how they think. How to go around that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Could be. Sex is great, but it's not the ultimate end-of-the-world thing that it's made out to be. Inevitably, there's some disappointment.
 
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Leporello said:
Could be. Sex is great, but it's not the ultimate end-of-the-world thing that it's made out to be. Inevitably, there's some disappointment.
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Yeah, but there has to be a way to make them think the other way around...even after the arousal has gone!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well

To answer the question about how to get a girl to choose you over friends...

Give her all the happiness she gets from hanging with friends with the added bonus of getting a great shag as dessert.

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Well unless your friends can give you mind blowing orgasms, if you're into that kind of thing, you should teach yourself to enjoy the company of beautiful women. Maybe it's not so much that you like the company of the friends you have, but more like you don't think you can have any fun with women.

Think about sex, think about grabbing her ass for no reason and just sucking her tits and ****ing like an animal. Sometimes we need to be inspired to get out there with women and if you think about the sexual possiblities that lay in wake for all the work you put into getting chicks, it will be well worth it.
 
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thefonz said:
Well unless your friends can give you mind blowing orgasms, if you're into that kind of thing, you should teach yourself to enjoy the company of beautiful women. Maybe it's not so much that you like the company of the friends you have, but more like you don't think you can have any fun with women.

Think about sex, think about grabbing her ass for no reason and just sucking her tits and ****ing like an animal. Sometimes we need to be inspired to get out there with women and if you think about the sexual possiblities that lay in wake for all the work you put into getting chicks, it will be well worth it.
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How to get HER to think the same way though?

I am saying that when you are CONSTANTLY with your friends, your mind doesn't go there at ALL. Same with girls. If you are with friends - your mind is not focused on sex.
 
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Man I had fun with my ex. We were like a couple of kids. =P That's pretty rare to find.
 
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The reason not to get married...

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You should always have a better time with friends...

You've just got to keep good PR with chicks sometimes... keep them only a phone call away from coming over to your place to fvck when you want to fvck
 
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Like you, I've got a great group of friends and when I'm with them, I don't think about the guys I might be into.

So if you want a girl to still be thinking of you, I guess you've got to give her something to chew on! I remember one guy told me "tell me something about yourself you haven't told anyone else." For the next six days I was consumed with coming up with something good to respond with. If you really like a girl, give her something to look forward to. Give her the promise of hanging out/going somewhere, and tell her it'll be a surprise. Or leave her a note/voicemail telling her to meet you at ____ and show up hungry.

Regardless, girls will be focused on their friends when hanging out with them, but if you give the girl you're interested in something to look forward to, she'll think about you a lot more.
 
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