Well, I played baseball with this kid and we're good friends now and I've started liking his sister. I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea? And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions. Thx
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Friend's sister?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes. Bros before hoes, man. Chicks come a dime a dozen, but a good friend is much harder to find. If he's not cool with it, and you value your friendship with him, then you shouldn't go for his sister.I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea?
What exactly did you say to him when you talked to him about it?And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106576
^^I had a very similar situation just this summer. Here's the link to the thread. Maybe you'll find your answers there.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ya bro seriously, i dont think you should proceed with this. As sean said 'bros befo hoes"
supajsilver2
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He can proceed, but only with the friend's 100% permission.
Sebastien_Valmont
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Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07
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I honestly don't know, i just could never see myself going for my friends sisters, and some of them are pretty hot too.
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I thought it was a man law.Sebastien_Valmont said:Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
However, I transferred schools, met the football team, knew this kid all summer. I'm not really friends with him, in fact don't really talk to him, but I banged his sister.
It should be a "best friend's" sister is off limits. However, make it known to your friend that you're not just in it for the booty. If he's not down with it, let her know that you two can't take this too far. Either that, or determine who means more to you.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
If you do start messing with her without talking to him about it first, It'll be bad.That's Breaking the man's trust in you and your reputation of loyalty will suffer for it.And if you do go for her and wing it......She better be smokin hot.