Well, I played baseball with this kid and we're good friends now and I've started liking his sister. I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea? And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions. Thx
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Friend's sister?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes. Bros before hoes, man. Chicks come a dime a dozen, but a good friend is much harder to find. If he's not cool with it, and you value your friendship with him, then you shouldn't go for his sister.I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea?
What exactly did you say to him when you talked to him about it?And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106576
^^I had a very similar situation just this summer. Here's the link to the thread. Maybe you'll find your answers there.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ya bro seriously, i dont think you should proceed with this. As sean said 'bros befo hoes"
supajsilver2
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He can proceed, but only with the friend's 100% permission.
Sebastien_Valmont
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Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kev07
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I honestly don't know, i just could never see myself going for my friends sisters, and some of them are pretty hot too.
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I thought it was a man law.Sebastien_Valmont said:Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
However, I transferred schools, met the football team, knew this kid all summer. I'm not really friends with him, in fact don't really talk to him, but I banged his sister.
It should be a "best friend's" sister is off limits. However, make it known to your friend that you're not just in it for the booty. If he's not down with it, let her know that you two can't take this too far. Either that, or determine who means more to you.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
If you do start messing with her without talking to him about it first, It'll be bad.That's Breaking the man's trust in you and your reputation of loyalty will suffer for it.And if you do go for her and wing it......She better be smokin hot.