Well, I played baseball with this kid and we're good friends now and I've started liking his sister. I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea? And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions. Thx
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Friend's sister?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes. Bros before hoes, man. Chicks come a dime a dozen, but a good friend is much harder to find. If he's not cool with it, and you value your friendship with him, then you shouldn't go for his sister.I know I should ask him if it's ok, but do you think it's a good idea?
What exactly did you say to him when you talked to him about it?And how are some good ways to talk to him about it? Cuz I've tried talkin to him about it, just it's really weird, so I need suggestions.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106576
^^I had a very similar situation just this summer. Here's the link to the thread. Maybe you'll find your answers there.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
ya bro seriously, i dont think you should proceed with this. As sean said 'bros befo hoes"
supajsilver2
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He can proceed, but only with the friend's 100% permission.
Sebastien_Valmont
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Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kev07
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I honestly don't know, i just could never see myself going for my friends sisters, and some of them are pretty hot too.
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
but on another hand, i used to like this one girl, she was the cutest thing i ever saw, not hot, just really cute, short, big head, big eyes. and then i saw her younger sister! they look exactly the same but her sister is even cuter o_o. my friend told me not to "move from one to the next" lol i think shes crazy
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I thought it was a man law.Sebastien_Valmont said:Guy Rule. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever.
However, I transferred schools, met the football team, knew this kid all summer. I'm not really friends with him, in fact don't really talk to him, but I banged his sister.
It should be a "best friend's" sister is off limits. However, make it known to your friend that you're not just in it for the booty. If he's not down with it, let her know that you two can't take this too far. Either that, or determine who means more to you.
Themanthatcan
Senior Don Juan
If you do start messing with her without talking to him about it first, It'll be bad.That's Breaking the man's trust in you and your reputation of loyalty will suffer for it.And if you do go for her and wing it......She better be smokin hot.