"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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friends say I'm arrogant with girls

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AlexTheGreat

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Alright, it seems, says my friend, that I'm "not being myself" around girls, that I'm "too confident, to the point of arrogance" with them. The guy also said I try too hard with them, cuz I went for a chick 2 years younger than me :rolleyes:. But, with guys, I'm completely "myself". So, wtf ? How am I not being myself, by doing stuff my way ?

I mean, I give guys props, I give girls hugs ... why should it be any different ? And, I have about 6 girls interested in me at the same time .... So, what is this ? Is it just him being an AFC and "not getting" why I'm acting this way ? Or could I truely be arrogant with girls, and not notice it ?


edit : I asked a girl if she thought I wasn't myself with girls and stuff, and she said "no no, you're always yourself ... you're a big flirt that's the thing" ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bling

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You tell us. Look at your friend, then look at yourself, then look how many chicks you have. There's the answer.
 
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dude, there just jelous and are putting you down because they have sh*t for game. i mean come on! you said you had 6 girls wanting your jock, its all good!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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you not ****y you confident, and if they tell you you the best it's a compliment
 
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me and my best buddy get the arrogant tag all the time. you'll probably find all the girls who find you arrogant actually like you and know that they cant get you. therefore they start spreading obsenities and throwing words around like ****y and arrogant to other people.
 
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They are just jealous because they cant get any themselves. Simple.
 
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What the hell is this foul excuse for a post?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I also noticed that the girls who want you the most are the ones who call you ****y/arrogant. This one girl gave me that line, and I avidly avoided her for a while.

However she couldn't get enough of me and chased me.
 
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