"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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friends say I'm arrogant with girls

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AlexTheGreat

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Alright, it seems, says my friend, that I'm "not being myself" around girls, that I'm "too confident, to the point of arrogance" with them. The guy also said I try too hard with them, cuz I went for a chick 2 years younger than me :rolleyes:. But, with guys, I'm completely "myself". So, wtf ? How am I not being myself, by doing stuff my way ?

I mean, I give guys props, I give girls hugs ... why should it be any different ? And, I have about 6 girls interested in me at the same time .... So, what is this ? Is it just him being an AFC and "not getting" why I'm acting this way ? Or could I truely be arrogant with girls, and not notice it ?


edit : I asked a girl if she thought I wasn't myself with girls and stuff, and she said "no no, you're always yourself ... you're a big flirt that's the thing" ...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You tell us. Look at your friend, then look at yourself, then look how many chicks you have. There's the answer.
 
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dude, there just jelous and are putting you down because they have sh*t for game. i mean come on! you said you had 6 girls wanting your jock, its all good!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you not ****y you confident, and if they tell you you the best it's a compliment
 
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me and my best buddy get the arrogant tag all the time. you'll probably find all the girls who find you arrogant actually like you and know that they cant get you. therefore they start spreading obsenities and throwing words around like ****y and arrogant to other people.
 
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They are just jealous because they cant get any themselves. Simple.
 
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What the hell is this foul excuse for a post?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I also noticed that the girls who want you the most are the ones who call you ****y/arrogant. This one girl gave me that line, and I avidly avoided her for a while.

However she couldn't get enough of me and chased me.
 
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