"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexTheGreat

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Alright, it seems, says my friend, that I'm "not being myself" around girls, that I'm "too confident, to the point of arrogance" with them. The guy also said I try too hard with them, cuz I went for a chick 2 years younger than me :rolleyes:. But, with guys, I'm completely "myself". So, wtf ? How am I not being myself, by doing stuff my way ?

I mean, I give guys props, I give girls hugs ... why should it be any different ? And, I have about 6 girls interested in me at the same time .... So, what is this ? Is it just him being an AFC and "not getting" why I'm acting this way ? Or could I truely be arrogant with girls, and not notice it ?


edit : I asked a girl if she thought I wasn't myself with girls and stuff, and she said "no no, you're always yourself ... you're a big flirt that's the thing" ...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bling

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You tell us. Look at your friend, then look at yourself, then look how many chicks you have. There's the answer.
 
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dude, there just jelous and are putting you down because they have sh*t for game. i mean come on! you said you had 6 girls wanting your jock, its all good!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you not ****y you confident, and if they tell you you the best it's a compliment
 
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BeLoSH

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me and my best buddy get the arrogant tag all the time. you'll probably find all the girls who find you arrogant actually like you and know that they cant get you. therefore they start spreading obsenities and throwing words around like ****y and arrogant to other people.
 
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They are just jealous because they cant get any themselves. Simple.
 
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LikRetsam

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What the hell is this foul excuse for a post?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I also noticed that the girls who want you the most are the ones who call you ****y/arrogant. This one girl gave me that line, and I avidly avoided her for a while.

However she couldn't get enough of me and chased me.
 
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