"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Friends boyfriend's sister

TheNewGuy

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So I have this girl friend (notice the space) and I was chilling at her house today with her, her boyfriend and some other people. She introduced me to her boyfriend and we were real chill, hes a pretty cool guy.

Now he has a sister, that is pretty good looking and cool personality. We were talking for a bit and I was throwing out some CF and stuff like that. She thought I was funny and i'm pretty sure there were some IOIs

I had to leave early but how can I get in contact with her without it being weird with my friend. I didn't get her number :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It will only be weird as long as you put it off. Hang out with this chick again, make a move. Of course things are going to be awkward, but that only lasts for a short time. I've dated 2 of my friend's sisters and it's not as bad as it sounds. It's just takes balls to initiate.
 

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Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
 

TheNewGuy

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Skilla_Staz said:
Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
Thanks bro thats the kinda thing I was looking for. I'll keep you guys updated on my progress, it'll be good :yes:
 

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are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tell your friend that ya like her. Get her number, there's nothing wierd about that.
 

TheNewGuy

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hydrocodone said:
are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
second cousin*

Get it right if you're gonna make fun :whistle:
 
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