"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friends boyfriend's sister

TheNewGuy

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So I have this girl friend (notice the space) and I was chilling at her house today with her, her boyfriend and some other people. She introduced me to her boyfriend and we were real chill, hes a pretty cool guy.

Now he has a sister, that is pretty good looking and cool personality. We were talking for a bit and I was throwing out some CF and stuff like that. She thought I was funny and i'm pretty sure there were some IOIs

I had to leave early but how can I get in contact with her without it being weird with my friend. I didn't get her number :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It will only be weird as long as you put it off. Hang out with this chick again, make a move. Of course things are going to be awkward, but that only lasts for a short time. I've dated 2 of my friend's sisters and it's not as bad as it sounds. It's just takes balls to initiate.
 

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Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
Thanks bro thats the kinda thing I was looking for. I'll keep you guys updated on my progress, it'll be good :yes:
 

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are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tell your friend that ya like her. Get her number, there's nothing wierd about that.
 

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hydrocodone said:
are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
second cousin*

Get it right if you're gonna make fun :whistle:
 
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