"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friends boyfriend's sister

TheNewGuy

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So I have this girl friend (notice the space) and I was chilling at her house today with her, her boyfriend and some other people. She introduced me to her boyfriend and we were real chill, hes a pretty cool guy.

Now he has a sister, that is pretty good looking and cool personality. We were talking for a bit and I was throwing out some CF and stuff like that. She thought I was funny and i'm pretty sure there were some IOIs

I had to leave early but how can I get in contact with her without it being weird with my friend. I didn't get her number :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It will only be weird as long as you put it off. Hang out with this chick again, make a move. Of course things are going to be awkward, but that only lasts for a short time. I've dated 2 of my friend's sisters and it's not as bad as it sounds. It's just takes balls to initiate.
 

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Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Tell your girl...friend to set up that situation again. have her boyfriend bring his sister. Get the number then. Just be like


"Hey girl...friend! So I was sort of diggin that ____ girl. You should have ___(her boyfriend) invite her along to hang out again sometime. Didn't quite get enough time to show ____(girl) my super suaaaave personality. ;) "
Thanks bro thats the kinda thing I was looking for. I'll keep you guys updated on my progress, it'll be good :yes:
 

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are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tell your friend that ya like her. Get her number, there's nothing wierd about that.
 

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hydrocodone said:
are you sure its not your friends boyfriends cousin's baby momma's step uncle's daughter?
second cousin*

Get it right if you're gonna make fun :whistle:
 
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