So, I have liked this girl for a few months now, but we still haven't hooked up. There is this other guy that likes her also. Mind you, this chick flirts with everyone, so this guy thinks he's got a chance. I have known the chick longer than this guy (I have her #, email, etc. So, today I just wanted to make things interesting. I egged this dude on to call her up and what not. He said if he had her number he would. So, I gave her number to him. Now we have a little competition going on to see who can get the chick first. At this point, I've got nothing to lose. Is there anything wrong with some friendly competition? What do you guys think?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
friendly competition?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
HAHA! I know. But, if she finds out, then we're both ****ed. But, like I said, I don't really care at this point. I've been pursuing her for way too long, and if she likes me, she likes me, if she doesn't, I'll move on.Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Then why not make it a money bet for some incentive? If you have something to lose, you'll try harder.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Right now both of you are competing over her, if she finds out and is SMART, she won't just give a ****, she's going to make the game harder for the both of you!Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
lol
good luck
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats retarded. I thought you were gonna say you and some friends were seeing who could get more numbers, not some gay sh*t like this. This thread blows my nuts.
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Senior Don Juan
its cool i like it