"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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friendly competition?

Lukef29

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So, I have liked this girl for a few months now, but we still haven't hooked up. There is this other guy that likes her also. Mind you, this chick flirts with everyone, so this guy thinks he's got a chance. I have known the chick longer than this guy (I have her #, email, etc. So, today I just wanted to make things interesting. I egged this dude on to call her up and what not. He said if he had her number he would. So, I gave her number to him. Now we have a little competition going on to see who can get the chick first. At this point, I've got nothing to lose. Is there anything wrong with some friendly competition? What do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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splinterkb

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If she finds out, you're ****ed.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
HAHA! I know. But, if she finds out, then we're both ****ed. But, like I said, I don't really care at this point. I've been pursuing her for way too long, and if she likes me, she likes me, if she doesn't, I'll move on.
 

splinterkb

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Then why not make it a money bet for some incentive? If you have something to lose, you'll try harder.
 

Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
Right now both of you are competing over her, if she finds out and is SMART, she won't just give a ****, she's going to make the game harder for the both of you!

lol

good luck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oakraiderz2

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Thats retarded. I thought you were gonna say you and some friends were seeing who could get more numbers, not some gay sh*t like this. This thread blows my nuts.
 

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its cool i like it
 
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