So, I have liked this girl for a few months now, but we still haven't hooked up. There is this other guy that likes her also. Mind you, this chick flirts with everyone, so this guy thinks he's got a chance. I have known the chick longer than this guy (I have her #, email, etc. So, today I just wanted to make things interesting. I egged this dude on to call her up and what not. He said if he had her number he would. So, I gave her number to him. Now we have a little competition going on to see who can get the chick first. At this point, I've got nothing to lose. Is there anything wrong with some friendly competition? What do you guys think?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
friendly competition?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
HAHA! I know. But, if she finds out, then we're both ****ed. But, like I said, I don't really care at this point. I've been pursuing her for way too long, and if she likes me, she likes me, if she doesn't, I'll move on.Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Then why not make it a money bet for some incentive? If you have something to lose, you'll try harder.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
Right now both of you are competing over her, if she finds out and is SMART, she won't just give a ****, she's going to make the game harder for the both of you!Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
lol
good luck
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thats retarded. I thought you were gonna say you and some friends were seeing who could get more numbers, not some gay sh*t like this. This thread blows my nuts.
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Senior Don Juan
its cool i like it