"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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friendly competition?

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So, I have liked this girl for a few months now, but we still haven't hooked up. There is this other guy that likes her also. Mind you, this chick flirts with everyone, so this guy thinks he's got a chance. I have known the chick longer than this guy (I have her #, email, etc. So, today I just wanted to make things interesting. I egged this dude on to call her up and what not. He said if he had her number he would. So, I gave her number to him. Now we have a little competition going on to see who can get the chick first. At this point, I've got nothing to lose. Is there anything wrong with some friendly competition? What do you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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splinterkb

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If she finds out, you're ****ed.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
HAHA! I know. But, if she finds out, then we're both ****ed. But, like I said, I don't really care at this point. I've been pursuing her for way too long, and if she likes me, she likes me, if she doesn't, I'll move on.
 

splinterkb

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Then why not make it a money bet for some incentive? If you have something to lose, you'll try harder.
 

Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by splinterkb
If she finds out, you're ****ed.
Right now both of you are competing over her, if she finds out and is SMART, she won't just give a ****, she's going to make the game harder for the both of you!

lol

good luck
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thats retarded. I thought you were gonna say you and some friends were seeing who could get more numbers, not some gay sh*t like this. This thread blows my nuts.
 

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its cool i like it
 
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