"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Friendliest/Least Friendly U.S. State you've been to and why

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90% of it has to be the god awful stoplights. There's a lack of freeways so you're doing a lot of city driving and the traffic lights are the worst in the country. Measurably they're the longest.
It's not clear what you're describing here.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's not clear what you're describing here.
Then let me finish my post goddangit. Referring to the "unique anger" described above.

Board, pls allow posters a 3 minute grace period before responding to posts, thx. :rofl:
 
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90% of it has to be the god awful stoplights. There's a lack of freeways so you're doing a lot of city driving and the traffic lights are the worst in the country. Measurably they're the longest.

Metro Phoenix has a fair amount of freeways. In Arizona, Tucson is worse on a lack of freeways. A lot of Tucson's population lives east and north of Interstate 10. Tucson is more oriented towards city driving.

There is internet chatter about miserable stoplights in Phoenix.

I think the combination of traffic and heat can result in a bad mood and lack of friendliness.
 

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Most of Arizona's population lives in the warmer, lower elevation parts of the state (Phoenix and Tucson).

Northern Arizona has higher elevations and less population. The climate is more temperate. Summers aren't as hot.

The heat isn't the only reason for Arizona's less friendly reputation. Southern hospitality occurs in Alabama, Tennessee, and Louisiana. Those places are hot and humid.



The obesity in that area is bad. I would not find as many women attractive in the Rio Grande Valley.
Northern Arizona, from the relatively few times I've visited, doesn't appear to be as rude.

As for states like Alabama, Louisiana, and Tennessee, they get hot, yeah...but not on the same scale as Arizona. For example, even when you factor in the heat index (with the humidity), I don't think Alabama ever has a Real Feel of 110 as late as October.

I don't mind fatties. And I have a track record of doing reasonably well with Latinas whose English is less than 100%. Perhaps I'd do well in the Rio Grande Valley.
 

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lots of pickup truck drivers here (the faux country all hat no cattle type).
I don't like that type of pickup truck owner.

As for states like Alabama, Louisiana, and Tennessee, they get hot, yeah...but not on the same scale as Arizona. For example, even when you factor in the heat index (with the humidity), I don't think Alabama ever has a Real Feel of 110 as late as October.
Those 110-115 degree days in Phoenix are miserable.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll attest to that first hand. South Florida has a mix of people, many of whom are from the urban north. The same goes for places like Tampa, the Orlando area, Port St. Lucie, and Port Charlotte. There's a fair number of entitled boomers who live here and there's a relatively high crime rate too state wide, despite the tough on crime attitude. Most people are cool though.

Further north in the deep south, with the exception of Atlanta, people are way nicer in Georgia, Alabama, South Carolina and Tennessee. I went up there a couple of years ago and the friendliness was a culture shock, to the point of me being amused.
I love South Beach Miami. The people are beautiful.
 
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