"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Friending girls your dating on Facebook.

spiegel549

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I recently re made my FB and I keep it very clean and professional. A few recent photos of myself, and a few of past and current friends both male and female. I noticed the 2 girls I am currently dating are on FB.

My gut tells me until they realize I have a FB, and actually friend request me that I should avoid friending them...could cause problems.

What do you guys think about this FB crap?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I avoid all social media like the plague, I do have a FB but I use it to look up stupid memes and funny pics during downtime with my younger siblings for a laugh or two.

I have just never had the urge to sit in front of a pc screen when I've done that nearly all day at work or class. Spare time is gym/reading and music time.
 

Who Dares Win

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Don't do that, there are plenty of reason to avoid it.

From killing mistery, to screw up yourself or being screw up from what is upoladed in your board.

They are gonna check your profile very carefuly, so their friends and then they will decide if you are worth or not, and the answer will be not very likely.

Her friends will tell her she can do better, that you are not cool enough or that you are too cool therefore more likely to cheat, that you look like a loser or a guy who wants to win at all cost.

Just dont give them reason to complicate your life, their judment will be prety similar to a butthurt dweller checking a porn star and pointing her flaws.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FB only benefits females in a relationship, they love to pry into your life, it will generate, unease, complacency, control. she will be watching your pages and activity like a hawk.
it will destroy any mystery you have, of course if you have tons of females who are always making positive coments on your pages and liking your sh!t, this will send her into a kamikaze like spiral of rage
 
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