"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friending girls your dating on Facebook.

spiegel549

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I recently re made my FB and I keep it very clean and professional. A few recent photos of myself, and a few of past and current friends both male and female. I noticed the 2 girls I am currently dating are on FB.

My gut tells me until they realize I have a FB, and actually friend request me that I should avoid friending them...could cause problems.

What do you guys think about this FB crap?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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typical

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I avoid all social media like the plague, I do have a FB but I use it to look up stupid memes and funny pics during downtime with my younger siblings for a laugh or two.

I have just never had the urge to sit in front of a pc screen when I've done that nearly all day at work or class. Spare time is gym/reading and music time.
 

Who Dares Win

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Don't do that, there are plenty of reason to avoid it.

From killing mistery, to screw up yourself or being screw up from what is upoladed in your board.

They are gonna check your profile very carefuly, so their friends and then they will decide if you are worth or not, and the answer will be not very likely.

Her friends will tell her she can do better, that you are not cool enough or that you are too cool therefore more likely to cheat, that you look like a loser or a guy who wants to win at all cost.

Just dont give them reason to complicate your life, their judment will be prety similar to a butthurt dweller checking a porn star and pointing her flaws.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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FB only benefits females in a relationship, they love to pry into your life, it will generate, unease, complacency, control. she will be watching your pages and activity like a hawk.
it will destroy any mystery you have, of course if you have tons of females who are always making positive coments on your pages and liking your sh!t, this will send her into a kamikaze like spiral of rage
 
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