"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Friending girls your dating on Facebook.

spiegel549

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I recently re made my FB and I keep it very clean and professional. A few recent photos of myself, and a few of past and current friends both male and female. I noticed the 2 girls I am currently dating are on FB.

My gut tells me until they realize I have a FB, and actually friend request me that I should avoid friending them...could cause problems.

What do you guys think about this FB crap?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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typical

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I avoid all social media like the plague, I do have a FB but I use it to look up stupid memes and funny pics during downtime with my younger siblings for a laugh or two.

I have just never had the urge to sit in front of a pc screen when I've done that nearly all day at work or class. Spare time is gym/reading and music time.
 

Who Dares Win

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Don't do that, there are plenty of reason to avoid it.

From killing mistery, to screw up yourself or being screw up from what is upoladed in your board.

They are gonna check your profile very carefuly, so their friends and then they will decide if you are worth or not, and the answer will be not very likely.

Her friends will tell her she can do better, that you are not cool enough or that you are too cool therefore more likely to cheat, that you look like a loser or a guy who wants to win at all cost.

Just dont give them reason to complicate your life, their judment will be prety similar to a butthurt dweller checking a porn star and pointing her flaws.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FB only benefits females in a relationship, they love to pry into your life, it will generate, unease, complacency, control. she will be watching your pages and activity like a hawk.
it will destroy any mystery you have, of course if you have tons of females who are always making positive coments on your pages and liking your sh!t, this will send her into a kamikaze like spiral of rage
 
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