"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friend Zone On Purpose? Pivot?

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There is this girl who I brought home a month ago an slept with on two other occasions within the same week. After about the second time I slept with her I realized I did not like having s ex with her. She is a nice person, but I really don't want to sleep with her anymore. She has been trying to hang out with me and I have been telling her that I have been sick and kindly brlowing her off. Last night she sent me a txt inviting me to an awseome concert tonight. I am going to this show and going to have a great time, but I also want to start putting her in the friend zone so I can start using her as a pivot.

Is there something I can say or do to prevent her from assuming that we will sleep together so I dont look like a total assho!e, or if it is brought up, a polite thing to say?

She has too many hot friends to completly ignore her, I feel like I could use her as a pivot to get to the rest of her friends?

Anyone have this experience before? I want to trade up if that is possible...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SickAgain

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Buy her a lot of stuff, constantly tell her how beautiful she is, and call her up 10 times a day.
 
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I dont think that will work, she like me too much...and would be too flattered...maybe, but doesnt tht screw me up for the friends of her?
 
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Simple. Give her the LJBF speech but continue to set stuff up with her. Interject a DJ friend (you've got one, right?) to pull her. (Assuming she doesn't look like death)

Keep your vow of not smurfing her and by the time your friend does you should be pivoting like a trapped Larry Bird.
 
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RexMan I like your Larry Bird simile. So as far as the LJBF speech, do I say it just like that...I think we should just be friends, or code it?

I live in a new place so I don't have too many friends yet, but I think I can pawn her off somehow to one of the people I know or to a random wing I find at a bar when I am with her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dude you already f*cked her, there's no chance in turning her into a friend now, at least not one that will help you to get women. Move along, move along.
 
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