"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's like this: she's my sister's friend and lately she's developed into my friend also and i dig her big time , thing is i don't know how to let it out without appearing as if i'm taking advantage of the situation, i could use yo tips if it was possible but i can't coz i'm always at work coz i'm an IT consultant and yu know how it is with us guys. so i need another method, something similar but that fits in to my schedule or if yu can tell me how i can make her feelings for me grow without doing the "fun" stuff coz i usually see her in the evening when i go to collect my puppy coz she's dog sitting. please help i really need to be a part of her. the fone could do me just fine coz i call her almost daily but i need to know how to say it without sounding stupid.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A few tips...

Seeing as you phone her almost daily, why not ask her to go somewhere with you? Dinner, movie, your house, etc... If she is interested in you, she will not object, if she isn’t, she will make up some excuse which will let u know that she isn’t interested... chicks like guys that have balls, and u need to have the balls to ask her out on a date..... I mean... if u are having so much trouble asking this girl on a date, how much trouble will u have kissing her? or even having sex with her? ... You need to realise, that if u just wait and analyze etc, ,you are just wasting time and delaying the inevitable, and risking another guy sweeping her off her feet... you only live this life once man, don’t waste it wondering what COULD be, and ACT, and SEE what will happen. I think she should get the hint that u kinda like her by the fact that u phone her nearly daily (which by the way is also not the greatest of idea's, it gets too much... try cut it down a little) ... so just pop the question, and see what she has to say about it... and remember, BE CONFIDENT, cause if you are not, she will notice, and that’s a big turnoff for a girl.

Good Luck...


Laterz...
 
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Got the girl!

Update: Did exactly as yu said, gripped on my balls and asked her out for a movie, she said it's okay. we went there and had a good time on our way back guess what she asked me? if i was interested in more than just a friendship with her! so i told her the obvious and wham! we now a thang. it turned out she was already interested in me from the start it was only my hesitation that was stalling thingz. the part yu said about another guy sweeping her off her feet really got me going. thanks a lot man i don't know how i could have overcome my fears
 
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wooohooo!

This is great:) Nice dude... I'm happy for you.... always a pleasure helping a fellow dj out;) ...

Best of luck with her:up:


Laterz...
 
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Show up at her door with 2 or 3 boxes of condoms of different types/brands, and tell her you need help trying them on to see which kind fits best.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There she hoez

Guess wat guyz? the chick told me yesterday she wanted someone who was "serious" then she went on askin me if there was any chance that i had another hoe elsewhere (i've got 2 already), when i told her i didn't have any she went on to ask why, and i told her it was probly coz of my work. she then said it was ok and warned me not to play on her! i don't know if she got all this from her friends but it really ticked me off although i didn't show it.

yo, Heart n' Soul, that some seriously funny sht man!:crackup:
 
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B!itch test!

hahaha.. she pulled a b!tch test on you... and you passed, well done:D .... She is just making 100% sure that you arent gonna playb her and hurt her, and u did fine, so its all good, shweet;)


Laterz...
 
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There she hoez again

I talked to the chick on the fone just a few hrs ago and it seems her attitude has kinda changed, she's no longer the funny and loveable person i fell in ove with, everything now all seems serious and sht.even her tone has changed, coz before she used to talk on the fone with a very nice, even arousing tone, kinda like we was having fone sex, but now it's different and i'm getting pssed. do chicks change their attitude when yu get out of the friend zone? i want my friend back. what do i do to get thingz goin on like before?:confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think your talking **** it all sounds made up. You change your mind every second you remind mr of my ex girlfriend actually your remind me of most females.
 
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Hey!

Dude, i'm serious, why the fcuk would i make it up? isn't it we supposed to be helpin each other's asses out?
 
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helpin each other's asses out?
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HaHaHaHa

You sound like a female
1)oh i like her should i ask her out
2)Omg she said yes i love her
3)even though i love her i lied to her and said im not seeing any other girls
3)Omg she changed her tone of voice
4)i want my friend back

What suprises me is that she liked you in the first place because you sound like you ***** alot
 
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you took the realationship road now you want her as a friend its not going to happen unless you have a time machine ........DO YOU HAVE A TIME MACHINE?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think yu misunderstood, i said i wanted her to act "normally" like before, not that i wanted us to be friends again, hell no! i want pvssy like every doggy and there ain't no way i'm gon get that if she's my friend
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
you took the realationship road now you want her as a friend its not going to happen unless you have a time machine ........DO YOU HAVE A TIME MACHINE?
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We are supposed to help each other out right. Well I have a time machine he can borrow. But only if he'll trade me for a pig.

I think she was probaly having a bad day. Yo have definitly grown too attached. My only advice is that you stop seeing her or whatever you are doing.
 
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