"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Friend who's a girl is very upset

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i think i have to go with wyldfire on this one guys, I mean, I have one real woman friend (who I am not attracted to).

you are confusing being friends for being AFC. You can be a friend and not be a chump, as long as you don't put her in front of the things that are important to you in your life.

Now, a woman will NEVER be my BEST friend, because i only trust women to a certain extent.. I mean, they are women.

Now, if you are friends with the girl and you are being AFC then she probably sin't going to be attracted to you, but if you are a DJ the entire time (not to her, just in general, being a man) then she won't see you as a nother woman friend, which is pretty much how women view AFC guys who want to be friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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