mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Heard females talking about this and each category sucked. From their view even a fwb isnt good enough.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Friend vs fwb vs roommate
- Thread starter mrgoodstuff
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Their saying from their view he isnt good enough to be her man.
Most fwb are men they can’t lock down so they tell themselves he’s not good enough to be her man. I’ve never lived with a girl I wasn’t dating so I can’t say about being roommates. I would imagine it would suck if you found her attractive though. Friends is still the worst of the worst out of all 3 options though.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
They are lying to themselves. Womens standards for men they just have sex with out of desire are higher than for being their provider, who they put Up with sex and fake orgasms with until they get what they were really after. Either they cant get their fwb to commit, or he doesnt have the provider traits.
Either way, he cant be "not good enough" if he evidently passes the highest bar women have, which is to desire him so much they want to have sex with him for its own sake. They sure as hell desire and respect him more than the soypilled white Knight or afc theyll eventually settle with as their "boyfriend"
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They were acting like they use fwb as a dumb dildo. Good enough for sex but not much else.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
They are either deluded or trying to delude themselves. They could also be wanting to emulate the men who use them the same way, as a manner of indirect revenge catharsis and selfdefense.
In any case they sound damaged to me, as i can only Imagine the clearly damaged women i know of expressing themselves like that. A woman like @AJ84 for example, would never be so deluded as to brag thinking she is the one "using" the man by letting him **** her with no strings... Lol
I think they really might just want to emulate their idea of men, and protect themselves. Maybe AJ can enlighten us
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They were younger females so they emulating the male way.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
They could be cluster B too. Either that or emulating out of a twisted mix of trauma, revenge, envy and mental selfdefense. Like how they can go on a sex spree after a breakup to gain the upper hand against a man in their mind, which coincidentally the girl i can recall saying something similar also did.
Healthy women are not like this. Red flag.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Seemed like "normal" young girl think
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Only normal to broken or pathological women, even whether there are more of them. I repeat, healthy women dont feel this way. I guarantee those girls are messed up in some way.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They were real young. Still making their mistakes. This is how "girls" in the game thinks. If shes socialized worried about being popular this is the normal thinking.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
I dont know whether to feel sad for them or not. What could have caused this toxic thinking? Is it feminism? If it really is socialization and they are not yet broken now, they certainly will be.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Their point was "friend" was almost an insult.
backseatjuan
Banned
Oh yea...
It’s their way of saying, in one instance he ain’t good enough to be anything more, and in another it’s adefence mechanism, she don’thave anything other than her pus to keep him, but he aint good enough for her. Sure, thats why she fcking with him.
Bro you overheard ugly btches that dont have nothing else but their vaginas to keep an alpha.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Nah it was some "pretty" and trendy young cliquish girls.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.