"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi, I'm stuck in a rut. I recently began to like this girl who has been a friend of mine for three years. I've been reading how it's nearly impossible to jump from the "just friends" category to "boyfriend," but that means there still is a possibility, regardless of how miniscule it may be. She also got out of a long relationship so I'm not sure how to approach that.

I don't really sense anything from her besides just friendly playing and teasing. I'd like to take it to the next level. . . .


Help me out y'all . .. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you "recently" began to like this girl?

Are you sure you didn't just like her for 3 years and tried to hold that down because she had a boyfriend, but now that hes out of the way, you start liking her?

Theres a VERY good thread on this subject, you're going to have to do a search, because i'm not going to search it for you, but it will lay it all out.

Just know that the process in that thread will take a few months, and it is NOT worth it. no girl is worth a few months of your time without actually doing something in return.
 
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Yeah it's recently. I can't really explain it. I hung out with her often as a friend and friend only even before she had a boyfriend. I honestly don't recall any romantic feelings for her so I know I haven't been suppressing any feelings or anything. But that's hardly the point. I'll look for that thread :up:
 
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