Friend to Girlfriend

[Dixieland]

Hi, I'm stuck in a rut. I recently began to like this girl who has been a friend of mine for three years. I've been reading how it's nearly impossible to jump from the "just friends" category to "boyfriend," but that means there still is a possibility, regardless of how miniscule it may be. She also got out of a long relationship so I'm not sure how to approach that.

I don't really sense anything from her besides just friendly playing and teasing. I'd like to take it to the next level. . . .


Help me out y'all . ..

 

[Kev07]

you "recently" began to like this girl?

Are you sure you didn't just like her for 3 years and tried to hold that down because she had a boyfriend, but now that hes out of the way, you start liking her?

Theres a VERY good thread on this subject, you're going to have to do a search, because i'm not going to search it for you, but it will lay it all out.

Just know that the process in that thread will take a few months, and it is NOT worth it. no girl is worth a few months of your time without actually doing something in return.

 

[Dixieland]

Yeah it's recently. I can't really explain it. I hung out with her often as a friend and friend only even before she had a boyfriend. I honestly don't recall any romantic feelings for her so I know I haven't been suppressing any feelings or anything. But that's hardly the point. I'll look for that thread