"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi, I'm stuck in a rut. I recently began to like this girl who has been a friend of mine for three years. I've been reading how it's nearly impossible to jump from the "just friends" category to "boyfriend," but that means there still is a possibility, regardless of how miniscule it may be. She also got out of a long relationship so I'm not sure how to approach that.

I don't really sense anything from her besides just friendly playing and teasing. I'd like to take it to the next level. . . .


Help me out y'all . .. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you "recently" began to like this girl?

Are you sure you didn't just like her for 3 years and tried to hold that down because she had a boyfriend, but now that hes out of the way, you start liking her?

Theres a VERY good thread on this subject, you're going to have to do a search, because i'm not going to search it for you, but it will lay it all out.

Just know that the process in that thread will take a few months, and it is NOT worth it. no girl is worth a few months of your time without actually doing something in return.
 
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Yeah it's recently. I can't really explain it. I hung out with her often as a friend and friend only even before she had a boyfriend. I honestly don't recall any romantic feelings for her so I know I haven't been suppressing any feelings or anything. But that's hardly the point. I'll look for that thread :up:
 
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