"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Friend says he can get me the girl

sim285

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There’s a girl I like at work and have told I like her.

went to party, she didn’t really talk to me avoided eye contact
And also she was happy to dance with every other guy apart from me.
Avoided sitting next to me

Is she shy, or she doesn’t like me or playing a game.

Now my friend says he can make her mine, if I follow his advice 100% but his advice is cringy, for example calling her babe/baby/love eveuntlly giving her a rose, this is all before she’s my gf.
He said nothing I have nothing to lose as I’m not getting anywhere now.

Before that he will also give me a 2 week course to improve everything confidence body laungage dress etc

Also anthor friend was telling me just to blank her and don’t giver her attention now, cos she wasn’t giving me any.

Who’s right keep playing games or be more serious and rise above the games.

He does have a lot of girlfriends but there from abroad.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marmel75

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Lmao...find some options bro. You have none and this woman has no interest in you.
 

sph21

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It's the same girl from last time, right? Come on, man. She clearly frienzoned you. Move on from her. Find another girl.
 
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Billtx49

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She’s avoiding your personal orbit = she doesn’t want you. Don’t depend on a friend to get you any girl, do it with another girl by yourself, standing on your own two feet…
It’s easier to piss up a rope than get a girl that’s not interested.
 
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