"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friend has hot sister!?!?

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Okay I have this friend and he seems to be close and protective of his sister.And she's hot!! How do I make a move?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Porky

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you don't.
 

skinnydart

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if you and the brother are friends, he should know you are a cool guy and shouldn't mind you going out with her
 

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Originally posted by skinnydart
if you and the brother are friends, he should know you are a cool guy and shouldn't mind you going out with her
Yes, but on the flip side... if something goes bad between you and his sister, its:
1) going to be awkward whenever you come over
2) going to make things different between you and him
3) going to make him feel like you go to his house for action instead of to see him.
 

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Originally posted by skinnydart
if you and the brother are friends, he should know you are a cool guy and shouldn't mind you going out with her
Then again, if him and his friend were friends, he should understand that he's overprotective and his sister is off limits.

Make a choice man. Out of experience, it'd be way better off if you never knew him and just met her, but you do know him and a lot of bad things can come out of this.

If he's just a casual friend and you don't really care about him, make the move.

But if he's a really good friend, he might get a little upset that his friend is moving in on his defenseless sister, especially if you talk to him about your moves on the ladies. What might even be worse is if you make the move and she rejects you. Then you lose both ways. You can always use "Bros over hos," but that's a little outplayed. You seem committed, so if you want, you should just go for it and risk losing a friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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rule #287 - if you've known the guy for over 24 hours, you may not, repeat may not, get with his sister.


case closed answer is no no and no
 

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PiHiPlaya

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Originally posted by icallug
rule #287 - if you've known the guy for over 24 hours, you may not, repeat may not, get with his sister.


case closed answer is no no and no
I think that's also rule number 8 of Tom Leykis's or Cigar Dave's Man Rules, i can't remember which one
 

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You're treading on thin ice by just thinking about it.

Theres plenty of other hot birds around, go get one of those :D
 

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How would you feel if the situation was reversed? And he was wanting to screw YOUR hot sister.

BTW, the rules:

1) you don't mess around with a mates relative
2) you don't mess around with a mates ex (until he cleared it)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Don't make a move.

....but you have indirectly found a great tool for revenge. ;)
 

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New Question

Lemme borrow this thread for a second....

What if a teacher had a hot daughter? Keep in mind, you hate this teacher's guts.

All signals go?
 

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How many people does it take to say no??? 250 billion...:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don Corleone

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talk to him about it

dude just talk to him. if you can get him to let you date her, then you can tell your mom that your sleeping at your friends house...then sneek into her room and you can have a sleepover with her instead


keep pimpin
 

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Stfu! If I was a mod, this discussion would be closed!
 

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whats wrong with it that you'd close it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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