Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

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friend got mugged...feel like sh*t

Alright...so I was visiting a few friends at college...and we were at a party having a good time. A few friends and I decided to leave to get ice cream..and one of my girl friends calls me and wants to meet up (she was at the party too...shes a girl that i know i can get with i just need the oppertunity with her alone) ...and she ended up coming to the ice cream shop. I told her that ill come to her dorm after i go to my campus and pick up my roomate. She says alright..and that she would be at a few friends appartment(they were guys)

So i go pick up my roomate...on my way back I call her and tell her to come back to her dorm..i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up twice..said that shes fine both times and that she;ll be at the dorm in 5 minutes. I call her again a few minutes later..she says shes right down the street and she'll be there soon.

A few minutes later she calls me CRYING and tells me that she just got mugged by two black guys...i run over to where she was (about a block away form the dorm) and one of her friends is already there comforting her. I stayed out there with them for about a half hour(campus security and cops were there) Turns out the robbers threw her to the ground..took her wallet and left.

So basicallly right now i feel like crap...i shouldnt have let her walk alone...even tho its not fully my fault..i cant help but feel a bit responsible..any thoughs of how to handle this situtaion? what do i say when i call her tomorrow??
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: friend got mugged...feel like sh*t

Originally posted by dip
Alright...so I was visiting a few friends at college...and we were at a party having a good time. A few friends and I decided to leave to get ice cream..and one of my girl friends calls me and wants to meet up (she was at the party too...shes a girl that i know i can get with i just need the oppertunity with her alone) ...and she ended up coming to the ice cream shop. I told her that ill come to her dorm after i go to my campus and pick up my roomate. She says alright..and that she would be at a few friends appartment(they were guys)

So i go pick up my roomate...on my way back I call her and tell her to come back to her dorm..i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up twice..said that shes fine both times and that she;ll be at the dorm in 5 minutes. I call her again a few minutes later..she says shes right down the street and she'll be there soon.

A few minutes later she calls me CRYING and tells me that she just got mugged by two black guys...i run over to where she was (about a block away form the dorm) and one of her friends is already there comforting her. I stayed out there with them for about a half hour(campus security and cops were there) Turns out the robbers threw her to the ground..took her wallet and left.

So basicallly right now i feel like crap...i shouldnt have let her walk alone...even tho its not fully my fault..i cant help but feel a bit responsible..any thoughs of how to handle this situtaion? what do i say when i call her tomorrow??
It isnt your fault, so stop freakin, you say whatever you usually say to stupid people, you tell them it happens.
 

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We get muggings on campus all the time, so our uni installed a security bus. You should petition your school to do the same. Basically a small bus that drives around the uni at specific times (ie. every 30mins after 8PM). Unless the muggers have machineguns or something...
 

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f*ck u racist BlTCHES! :cuss:

why couldn't you just say 2 guys mugged her. WTF does it matter what race it was, does it make it any worse?
 

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why should i hide the truth? thats not called being racist you ignorant bastard
 

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Originally posted by dip
why should i hide the truth? thats not called being racist you ignorant bastard
stfu! they would'a probably kicked your ass too if it makes you feel any better.:)
 

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dont blame yourself, **** happens.

Well would it make you feel better if you were there and got shot while defending her?

no point wimpering over the past and regretting it. move on
 

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i think you should talk her into taking one of those classes for ladies to learn self defense in case of something like that
 

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you wouldn't have been able to help her had you been there anyway.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by penkitten
i think you should talk her into taking one of those classes for ladies to learn self defense in case of something like that
Self-defense please no matter how good she gets there is no way a woman is going to take on two men at the same time.
 

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Actually, dont girls nowadays carry pepper spray?
 

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Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Self-defense please no matter how good she gets there is no way a woman is going to take on two men at the same time.
you never know
 

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Meeeh she probably made it up anyway, b!tch is probably well aware crying rape is played out nowadays, so shes settling for the next best thing.

Bingo!
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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