"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dmvdav

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A good friend of mine got broken up with recently.
The girl told him "you're too good for me," so of course he is trying to win her back.

We all know that know that any excuse is irrelevant, when a girl breaks up with you. NC her, and that's that,
He doesn't see that he's been friendzoned hard.
The signs are so obvious, even my friends who have no skills with "game" can see it.

The question is: would you try explaining the situation to your friend?

I want to just hit him up and say "whats goin on with you and (girl)" and give him some wisdom, but at the same time i can see him not listening and even getting pissed at me.

It almost seems like something he'll have to learn on his own, but i've fallen for the same tricks, so i know how long he could get strung along by her.

thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheException

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Let him learn on his own...if he asks, go ahead and give advice. Ive been where you are, and theres nothing like having a friend who wont listen to advice...he pretty much uses someone to vent when he "asks for advice".
 

dmvdav

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I guess i'll just let it play out.
It's hard to watch, but i can't really see him taking my advice.
 
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