"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dmvdav

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A good friend of mine got broken up with recently.
The girl told him "you're too good for me," so of course he is trying to win her back.

We all know that know that any excuse is irrelevant, when a girl breaks up with you. NC her, and that's that,
He doesn't see that he's been friendzoned hard.
The signs are so obvious, even my friends who have no skills with "game" can see it.

The question is: would you try explaining the situation to your friend?

I want to just hit him up and say "whats goin on with you and (girl)" and give him some wisdom, but at the same time i can see him not listening and even getting pissed at me.

It almost seems like something he'll have to learn on his own, but i've fallen for the same tricks, so i know how long he could get strung along by her.

thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let him learn on his own...if he asks, go ahead and give advice. Ive been where you are, and theres nothing like having a friend who wont listen to advice...he pretty much uses someone to vent when he "asks for advice".
 
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dmvdav

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I guess i'll just let it play out.
It's hard to watch, but i can't really see him taking my advice.
 
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