"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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friend getting played

dmvdav

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A good friend of mine got broken up with recently.
The girl told him "you're too good for me," so of course he is trying to win her back.

We all know that know that any excuse is irrelevant, when a girl breaks up with you. NC her, and that's that,
He doesn't see that he's been friendzoned hard.
The signs are so obvious, even my friends who have no skills with "game" can see it.

The question is: would you try explaining the situation to your friend?

I want to just hit him up and say "whats goin on with you and (girl)" and give him some wisdom, but at the same time i can see him not listening and even getting pissed at me.

It almost seems like something he'll have to learn on his own, but i've fallen for the same tricks, so i know how long he could get strung along by her.

thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheException

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Let him learn on his own...if he asks, go ahead and give advice. Ive been where you are, and theres nothing like having a friend who wont listen to advice...he pretty much uses someone to vent when he "asks for advice".
 

dmvdav

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I guess i'll just let it play out.
It's hard to watch, but i can't really see him taking my advice.
 
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