"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

TheLoner

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sageproduct

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Dear TheLoner,

You write very beautifully my friend.

Words stem from your fingers

With Virtue and Grace

Even more so than

The budding DJ taking his girl to the zoo.

Sorrow and Anguish can be your friend;

Slowly, a tear rolls down my eye.

Love,

Sageproduct
 

foreverAFC

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get drunk and fck a hooker
 

Gunner26

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

I can remedy this problem.

Solution 1.
Hookers love whoever is paying the moneys. You can pay, then have an hours conversation with them

Solution 2.
Chat Roulette is just waiting to be explored for potential friends.

Solution 3.
Commit crime and get sent to jail. You'll get all the bathroom sex you've ever dreamed of, and depending on where you get sent you'll get a real life roommate!!!!

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
 

TheLoner

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Gunner26 said:
I can remedy this problem.

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
Do you know anyone who can make these cardboard cut outs of if I get the pictures of people from my soccer team, off their facebook?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Brokenblade

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

Awwww!!! :(


Sounds like you are in a rut.

What are your interests?

Maybe you can find a group of people that share the same or similar interests.

I used to be similar, all alone and feeling sorry for myself. Eventually, I got tired of it.
 

Ringleader41

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Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
 

TheLoner

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Ringleader41 said:
Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
I have no one else to talk to but you guys.

I'm sorry, I have no where else to vent. No one in real life will listen to me.
 
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