"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

TheLoner

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sageproduct

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Dear TheLoner,

You write very beautifully my friend.

Words stem from your fingers

With Virtue and Grace

Even more so than

The budding DJ taking his girl to the zoo.

Sorrow and Anguish can be your friend;

Slowly, a tear rolls down my eye.

Love,

Sageproduct
 

foreverAFC

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get drunk and fck a hooker
 

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

I can remedy this problem.

Solution 1.
Hookers love whoever is paying the moneys. You can pay, then have an hours conversation with them

Solution 2.
Chat Roulette is just waiting to be explored for potential friends.

Solution 3.
Commit crime and get sent to jail. You'll get all the bathroom sex you've ever dreamed of, and depending on where you get sent you'll get a real life roommate!!!!

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
 

TheLoner

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Gunner26 said:
I can remedy this problem.

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
Do you know anyone who can make these cardboard cut outs of if I get the pictures of people from my soccer team, off their facebook?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

Awwww!!! :(


Sounds like you are in a rut.

What are your interests?

Maybe you can find a group of people that share the same or similar interests.

I used to be similar, all alone and feeling sorry for myself. Eventually, I got tired of it.
 

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Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
 

TheLoner

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Ringleader41 said:
Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
I have no one else to talk to but you guys.

I'm sorry, I have no where else to vent. No one in real life will listen to me.
 
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