Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

TheLoner

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Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sageproduct

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Dear TheLoner,

You write very beautifully my friend.

Words stem from your fingers

With Virtue and Grace

Even more so than

The budding DJ taking his girl to the zoo.

Sorrow and Anguish can be your friend;

Slowly, a tear rolls down my eye.

Love,

Sageproduct
 

foreverAFC

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get drunk and fck a hooker
 

Gunner26

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

I can remedy this problem.

Solution 1.
Hookers love whoever is paying the moneys. You can pay, then have an hours conversation with them

Solution 2.
Chat Roulette is just waiting to be explored for potential friends.

Solution 3.
Commit crime and get sent to jail. You'll get all the bathroom sex you've ever dreamed of, and depending on where you get sent you'll get a real life roommate!!!!

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
 

TheLoner

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Gunner26 said:
I can remedy this problem.

Solution 4.
Place cardboard cut outs of people around the house. Talk to them as if they were real and create your very own imaginary family.

Gunner
Do you know anyone who can make these cardboard cut outs of if I get the pictures of people from my soccer team, off their facebook?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Brokenblade

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TheLoner said:
Friday Night All Alone - Saturday Night All Alone

Just like every other night.

Just me myself and I.

So lonely. I gaze into the streets from my bedroom window,

and I see that everyone is happy. Everyone but me of course.

The next 80 years of my life will be the same routine.

Sit at home, with no one, speak to no one, and be a no one.

My pathetic existence continues.

Awwww!!! :(


Sounds like you are in a rut.

What are your interests?

Maybe you can find a group of people that share the same or similar interests.

I used to be similar, all alone and feeling sorry for myself. Eventually, I got tired of it.
 

Ringleader41

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Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
 

TheLoner

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Ringleader41 said:
Op is probably trolling, but I'm going to reply anyway. Bvtching and moaning on a forum to seek validation all the time isn't going to get you a social life. This is something you must take action on
I have no one else to talk to but you guys.

I'm sorry, I have no where else to vent. No one in real life will listen to me.
 
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