"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Friction at the Point of Progress

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It's essential to realize that as relationships advance, and people feel obligated to do more and more (or at least pick up where they left off), that there are points of resistance. This is akin to when boiling water reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit. It still takes an extra kick of energy to turn it to steam. These are the points where relationships often falter, so when we understand this it helps to manage the resulting friction.

Example: You almost have sex and she says next time. Then the next date gets cancelled. It's because there was too much pressure regarding her obligations. Just take a step back and try again later.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LARaiders85 said:
Not with high IL women ime
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They can have sex on the first date, but then the second date they feel obligated, so it can happen any time.

It's important to stay positive and always assume they like you. When you assume they don't like you and act unsure, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Just one moment of weakness can really damage her interest.
 
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