It's essential to realize that as relationships advance, and people feel obligated to do more and more (or at least pick up where they left off), that there are points of resistance. This is akin to when boiling water reaches 212 degrees Fahrenheit. It still takes an extra kick of energy to turn it to steam. These are the points where relationships often falter, so when we understand this it helps to manage the resulting friction.
Example: You almost have sex and she says next time. Then the next date gets cancelled. It's because there was too much pressure regarding her obligations. Just take a step back and try again later.
Example: You almost have sex and she says next time. Then the next date gets cancelled. It's because there was too much pressure regarding her obligations. Just take a step back and try again later.