"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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French consume 3x more saturated fats then US, but get 1/3 of heart disease

spesmilitis

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http://independent.com/news/2007/oct/25/eating-french/

The author concluded that this is because the French are less stressed. Maybe thats true. But I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
 

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And the WINE! French people drink a lot of wine. Red wine has flavinoids or some such in it and it helps prevent heartattacks.
 

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and they don't shove piles of mc fatburger down their holes every day.
 

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mmm fat. wba WILL be pleased.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Heart Break Kid

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I grew up in Paris... it's not THAT different. But I do feel it is much more laid back than the US. Wine must help too... I am probably the only person in my dorm who has red wine...
 

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spesmilitis said:
.... I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.

I'm with you there. :rockon:
 

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The wine makes a difference. And, with gov't sponsored healthcare in France- they prolly don't stress as much about medical bills, either. They also take longer, mentally-refreshing, vacations(average 3-5 weeks/yr).....compared to the US- who few are lucky to even get their two-weeks of PTO.
 

mintxx

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Mr Autobahn said:
I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
To my mind these make the most sense and match what I've heard. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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