"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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French consume 3x more saturated fats then US, but get 1/3 of heart disease

spesmilitis

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http://independent.com/news/2007/oct/25/eating-french/

The author concluded that this is because the French are less stressed. Maybe thats true. But I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
 

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And the WINE! French people drink a lot of wine. Red wine has flavinoids or some such in it and it helps prevent heartattacks.
 

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and they don't shove piles of mc fatburger down their holes every day.
 

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mmm fat. wba WILL be pleased.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Heart Break Kid

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I grew up in Paris... it's not THAT different. But I do feel it is much more laid back than the US. Wine must help too... I am probably the only person in my dorm who has red wine...
 

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spesmilitis said:
.... I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.

I'm with you there. :rockon:
 

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The wine makes a difference. And, with gov't sponsored healthcare in France- they prolly don't stress as much about medical bills, either. They also take longer, mentally-refreshing, vacations(average 3-5 weeks/yr).....compared to the US- who few are lucky to even get their two-weeks of PTO.
 

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Mr Autobahn said:
I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
To my mind these make the most sense and match what I've heard. :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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