"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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French consume 3x more saturated fats then US, but get 1/3 of heart disease

spesmilitis

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http://independent.com/news/2007/oct/25/eating-french/

The author concluded that this is because the French are less stressed. Maybe thats true. But I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
 

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And the WINE! French people drink a lot of wine. Red wine has flavinoids or some such in it and it helps prevent heartattacks.
 

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and they don't shove piles of mc fatburger down their holes every day.
 

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mmm fat. wba WILL be pleased.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heart Break Kid

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I grew up in Paris... it's not THAT different. But I do feel it is much more laid back than the US. Wine must help too... I am probably the only person in my dorm who has red wine...
 

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spesmilitis said:
.... I have a feeling it is because they eat mostly unprocessed foods and that saturated fats aren't as bad as the media/govt portrays.

I'm with you there. :rockon:
 

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The wine makes a difference. And, with gov't sponsored healthcare in France- they prolly don't stress as much about medical bills, either. They also take longer, mentally-refreshing, vacations(average 3-5 weeks/yr).....compared to the US- who few are lucky to even get their two-weeks of PTO.
 

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Mr Autobahn said:
I remember asking someone who stayed in France for a couple of years whether it was true or not that the French were skinnier than Americans.

She said yes. I asked her if she had any idea why? I think she said two reasons. One was they ate the heavier meals earlier in the day and only had a small dinner. The second was that they walked everywhere.
To my mind these make the most sense and match what I've heard. :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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